A Drive that Found Us

Kazakhstan is 9th largest country with population even less than Mumbai. There are stretches of 200 kilometres without any gas stations, restaurant or presence of any humankind. After driving for hours, we stopped at Merki, a sleepy town on the way to Almaty.

Sofia was holding the counter at an overly occupied cafe. She was tending change, ushering people and attending calls. We came to her, making an unusual request to provide vegetarian food. She called her cook, and after discussion, couldn’t come up with anything.

We were tired, famished and not in the mood to drive for another 200 km, hungry.

Sofia found us a table to sit. Before we realised, we were served with three chocolate filled warm breads and a jug full of cranberry juice. We weren’t full, but were fulfilled, gratified, relaxed and good to go. We went to the counter to pay, to which Sofia very politely declined stating that nobody leaves her cafe hungry.

This is one of the several events that we experienced on this drive. And I maybe understating when I say that.

There are people logging on to our website, finding our numbers and texting whether we need anything in their town. People waiting near the car to meet us, talk to us and listen to our stories. People hosting us and letting us stay over. Lets say we go to Amitabh Bachchan’s house for an interview and he says it’s too late for the day, and we can stay back.

The Genesis of Steering Story

Chronologically, I do not know at what point of time I started, but in hindsight I can tell you that it was a right time.

It may seem like a eureka moment, and its romantic and interesting to say so, but that is far from reality.

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Whenever you have an idea like that, you don’t pack your bags, turn on the ignition and set your car rolling.

No, it doesn’t happen like that. You give time to yourself, you deliberate. You discuss with your family and confidantes. You check your own abilities and weigh the possibilities. Slowly you see an idea shaping up and crystallising  your final outcome.

I do believe that everything happens by deliberation, even if it may seem like an accident sometimes.

Why The World Drive

When we started with the drive, we kept saying that we are doing because it can be done and there is no reason why it shouldn’t be done.

Also to tell my son, “Bete, Maine Duniya Dekhi Hai“, I have seen the world.

Yes! You are right – the reasons may well be a check on the bucket list, but as i have always mentioned; This is a personal endeavour.   Its for the reasons of  “Just”.

Just as Taj Mahal is also a personal endeavour and many of those Just have become history, monuments, inventions and discoveries.

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This drive isn’t my day job. Not my sustenance. Neither am I saying that by travelling world one becomes world wise.

The purpose of the drive is not to clear a target or achieve a goal. Goals are important but it is still not the purpose. The purpose is to experience.

It is experience over outcome, and experience is invaluable, which doesn’t need a reason.

Any problem, any bad incident.

Concern was never about what is in store for us ahead. It was always about what we left behind. My parents, business, my son who is studying in Singapore, etc. With regard to this trip there  always has been a hand of god. Our car never failed us. Not even a single flat tyre.

Yes, we did have one break in incident, not in countries that family and friends warn you about, but in west Europe. So our car’s windshield was broken in and we were burgled of 6 bags, laptops, storage devices, cash in hand, clothes and some other personal effects. Now when one door shuts on you, other three miraculously open.

A lady Rupa Kodachwad in Piacenza shelters all three of us. She lets us invade her privacy, dominate her bathrooms, annexe her living rooms, mess with her laptop, spread ourselves in every corner of the house.

She gave us comfort and rest that compensated for cumulative arrears of last six months. We could see Italy that is not documented, frequented or touristed. On every problem, not many though on this trip, we had a rainbow sprouting.

Challenges

I am thankful that we made some good thinking by making the trip  people-centric. To meet and interview people who bring a change to society or influence the society by their body of work. All said and done, we aren’t backed by BBC or CNN or  times of India! For that matter, not a single media house.

Neither are we celebrities or Youtube darlings.

Question always was, why would anybody, diplomat or the influencers meet us? Even though we tell them “you may be widely covered, but yet not pan-covered”. A little more exposure may not hurt if not help.

Now, some met us because they are amused that we are driving to them from India. But most met, because they have a kind heart. They are accessible, available and ready to give you the audience you want. They have become what they practice, a lesson in humanity. Meeting them one realises that we really fret, sweat and brag over small stuffs.

Success marker

What is the success marker of this endeavour? The idea is to travel like a free human, letting things come our way and make the best out of it. What comes our way is not in our hands but what we make out of it is.  We are striving to make Steering Story a constructive, feel-good, pedagogic, informational platform.

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Wish we are earnestly able to showcase what inspires these inspiring people.

What’s in it for you

You are my stake holder, as you give me your audience. I am responsible to you. I can’t guarantee the outcome, leave alone promise what’s in store for you. What I can possibly assure is that we will both be enriched by experiencing and sharing several cultures, different terrains, and assorted unique stories.

While we were busy going through cookie-cutter and recipe book motions of life, we could find this new purpose.

Finally

My takeaway on this trip is that you really have to be ill-fated or unfortunate to find a wrong person in the world.

I am quoting a rapper from Macedonia here, You don’t pick the game, the game picks you.

 

We are fortunate the drive chose us and we could find a Sofia, a Rupa and those many great influencers. 

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